Philadelphia Dominatrix Lexx Envy - FAQ

Q. How does the Mistress prefer to be addressed?
She prefers to be addressed as Domina, Domina Lexx, or Goddess.

Q. How long has she been a Dominatrix and what does she enjoy most about the Philadelphia BDSM scene?

Q.  She is one of the most beautiful Philadelphia Mistresses. Are the pictures on her site really her?
No. She is really an elderly, morbidly obese, bearded and deformed looking albino troll. She uses the pictures of her beautiful model sister who she "envies" greatly and that you will never meet. ;) Just kidding. Absolutely they are definitely her and you are encouraged to visit her members' site where videos and pictures are updated on a regular basis. She encourages her fans to visit the website often as she is constantly adding new content. She frequently hears that her pictures do her no justice...and that her humor is twisted. You will just have to see for yourself.

Q. So does she consider herself a true lifestyle dominatrix?
Absolutely. She has always considered herself a naturally dominant woman who demands respect and obedience from not only those who serve her, but from those she interacts with on a daily basis. She thoroughly relishes and takes the utmost pleasure in what she does, and always respects the fantasies and limits of her subs and toys.

Q. Most clients are concerned about discretion when visiting a Dominatrix or Mistress. Is she discreet?
She has the greatest and most sincere respect for her clients privacy and she expects them to have respect for hers'. Her private Playspace  is one of the most discreet in all of Philadelphia. She does not offer dungeon rentals, nor host play parties there. The only people who have been to her studio are fellow clientele and a few select Mistresses.

Q. Does she see novices?
Of course. Some of her favorite sessions have been with novices as she  loves to be part of their new found games and persona. She loves to watch them grow in their fetish over weeks, months or even years. It is wonderful to be able to set a goal with someone and help them achieve it and also explore together.

Q) Where in Philadelphia is she located?
She is  located about 5 minutes from Center City. After you have confirmed your appointment, you will be given the cross streets. Philly is only fifteen minutes from Cherry Hill NJ, 30 minutes north of Delaware, and roughly and hour and a half to two hours from New York City, Baltimore Maryland and Washington DC.

Q. What are some of  her favorite activities?
That is a very hard question for her to answer. Its more a matter of what she may be in the mood for at any given time. She also thrives on the reactions of her slaves and toys, so that has a significant impact on what she will enjoy.

Q. I don't see my fetish described on your website. May I ask you why not?
Her site is somewhat limited by concerns about censorship and your email should be as well. Euphemisms are appreciated and graphic descriptions may not receive a response. Inquire  politely and be articulate and you will see.

Q. What will the session be like?
Remember, you are perusing a web site of a Philadelphia based Dominatrix and BDSM educator, not a psychic. Everyone is different and therefore, so is every scene that unfolds. Besides, even if she did know what was going to happen, why ruin the surprise?

Q. I understand that BDSM play in many instances involves the exchange of power among the two parties. Would it be possible to have a session with the Mistress that does not involve power exchange?
Yes, it is perfectly possible to engage in fetish exploration with Domina Lexx Envy or have a scene utilizing only her S/M or bondage skills. If you are a bottom or masochist you'll find she derives just as much enjoyment engaging in the play as long as this is all clearly negotiated before the scene.

Q. I want to submit but can not leave with markings. Would I still be able to have a session with Domina Lexx Envy?
Yes, it is perfectly possible to engage in BDSM play and not leave marks. Any responsible and experienced Dominatrix/Mistress can engage in play without leaving "evidence". And remember, Domination is not just about pain - it encompasses many scenarios and skills.

Q. What does she  wear?
She  usually wears black leather, latex, PVC, along with thigh-high  boots, spiky stilettos or pumps. She also enjoys wearing stockings, garter belts, corsets, various forms of lingerie or catsuits. If you have a fantasy of being dominated by a nurse, teacher, boss, or a woman in street clothing, she enjoys doing that as well. Do not request any degree of nudity from her.

Q. Does she play with any other Dommes?
Yes. She does play with other select Mistresses in Philadelphia, as well as some of the other cities she visits. Keep in mind, she does have a gorgeous female sub who now also switches who is available for double sessions in any dynamic.

Q. What Type of clients do you prefer to see?
First off, clean, respectful, polite ones. Aside from that, curious, responsive ones with a sense of adventure - and a sense of humor. She thrives on and feeds off of  your responses, so the more responsive you are, the higher levels of inspiration she  can reach and the more incredible places you will be taken.

Q. Does she offer phone and webcam sessions?
Yes.

Q. Does she use safe words?
Yes, all of her play follows the BDSM mantra which is that it is safe, sane and consensual. And if for whatever reason you are not able to use your mouth, such as being gagged in any way, you will be instructed to utilize a non-verbal safe signal. Anytime you play, with her or anyone else, you need to set up a safe word BEFORE you start to play. Use this safe word anytime you feel threatened physically or mentally. You will not be seen as weak if you use your safe word, nor will you 'ruin the fun.' While she revels in your pain, she does not desire to damage you physically or psychologically. For more advanced players she likes to allow them to ask for mercy. It is at her whim as to whether or not provide the requested mercy, and this is as close as she comes to playing without a safe word. The basis of a BDSM scene is consent. And the difference between a sadist and a sociopath is that as well. Just keep that in mind if you choose to play with a Domme who does not respect your true limits.

Q. Do you see women and couples?
Absolutely. The more the merrier. ;)

Q. What is her tribute?
This is something that is only discussed through the receptionist on the phone or in person.

Q. Does the Mistress travel outside of Philadelphia? If so, where and how can I stay informed?
When she has time to venture outside of her hometown Philadelphia, she may sometimes Guest Mistress at New York City's Arena Studios. She sometimes travels to Baltimore Maryland, Washington DC and Chicago. The best way to be informed is to join her Yahoo Group, or to check the News/Schedule page of this web site periodically.

Q. What is her schedule?
She is usually available on weekday afternoons and evenings. She recommends making an appointment no less a  day in advance although same day appointments are possible IF there is an opening. Currently she is available Sunday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday from 8am-10pm. Mondays and Wednesdays her availability is only from 6pm-12am

Q. How do I go about making an appointment?
For same day appoint attempts, you can call her receptionist for screening. If you know in a day or two in advance when you can come in, she appreciates and prefers an e-mail of introduction so that you may get acquainted before your encounter.

Q. How much notice does she require before making an appointment?
As much notice that you can possibly give is appreciated and also increases your chance of being able to see her. You are welcome to attempt a same day session. An hour for  notice (IF she is available at that time frame) is needed.

Q. I do not live any where near Philadelphia or any of the cities that Dominatrix Lexx Envy visits. Would she consider coming out to my area if I cover all the expenses?
This depends on certain circumstances in her life at the moment. Aside from taking professional Domination and BDSM scenes in Philadelphia and other cities, she is also busy with her academic endeavors and multimedia projects. You can e-mail her to inquire if she would be interested. Be prepared to give a reliable reference.

Q. Can I buy her  a gift?
Domina Lexx's trainees and admirers often ask if they may offer her a personal gift and such gestures always bring a smile to her face. It is not expected, so don't feel obligated. However, if you would like to surprise her, gifts will be gratefully accepted and appreciated. Peruse the wish-list page if you desire to get her a gift certificate or a token of adoration.

Q. Is she looking for a personal slave?
Yes, but  do not approach her about being a slave unless you have seen her several times. Random e-mails and phone calls from complete strangers inquiring  for personal servitude make her very uncomfortable. Consider it this way: how would you feel if someone you never met e-mailed/called you out of the blue asking to be your business partner, friend or lover? Unsettling and awkward, right? This is a position that is  based on chemistry and compatibility, and like any relationship will grow over time, not start immediately.
Also keep in mind that personal servitude is REALITY not a fantasy, and that this is truly a position for those who need to serve, and the interested party must be able to bring something to the table. 

Q. Can I be her houseboy?
Possibly. If you are interested, be prepared to give a valid reference from a reputable Mistress. This Mistress does not have to be in Philadelphia necessarily. She just needs to be legit. And be prepared to work hard and do not  expect a "barter" of playtime for housework at her studio.

Q. Does she do outcalls?
Occasionally Domina Lexx will consider an outcall in the Philadelphia area. Outcalls must be booked a day in advance and you must have either seen her, or have a valid reference from another Mistress

Q. Does  she offer overnight or weekend sessions?
Yes, she does. Overnight and/or weekend sessions must be booked in advance.

Q. Does  she ever "Bottom" or "Switch" (i.e. be the submissive)?
No.  However, she does have a beautiful blond "switchable" sub Lindsay to join in on double sessions. In the near future, select gentleman will be able to see Lindsay alone in submissive sessions.

Q. I want to see what it feels like to cross dress or just be mildly feminized. Being married, I don't have any clothing.
No worry. The Mistress has an extensive wardrobe for both large and small frame men. She can fit you in a Bra and panties, lingerie, or typical everyday women's clothing. Or ALL. The choice is up to her how she wants you to look. If there is  something specific you want, or perhaps a size she does not  carry, you will be expected to bring it or pay for it in advance if she has to purchase it. Be sure to tell her receptionist your size when you book your appointment.

Q. I am a professional Dominatrix in Philadelphia PA as well. Can I rent space from the Mistress to do My BDSM scenes?
Unfortunately no. As for Philadelphia Dommes, the Mistress only allows those to rent who do double sessions with her. The only others are her Mistress friends from out of town, since they do extend Domina Lexx Envy the same courtesy. She can happily recommend three certain wonderful establishments located in Center City Philadelphia. One even has over 6 rooms for you to choose from! Feel free to contact Lexx about these places and she will provide you with the contact information for these fine establishments.

Q. I am a professional Mistress who  will be visiting Philadelphia. Can I host my BDSM scenes at her establishment?
Possibly. E-mail her and inquire.